Five days early — so you can actually show up.

A 7am alert on the day is too late for care. Kinnect reminds you five days out so you can write, plan, or schedule something real for people in your membership.

Five days early — so you can show up

Digital birthday cards with time to care

Not a last-minute text. Notice, write something real, send it in the private family home. Included with membership.

Time to make it personal

Five days' notice is enough to write something that sounds like you — not a generic sticker.

For the people on your map

Birthdays sit with Tree and Storybooks — the same private circle, not a public wall of strangers.

Ritual of care, not spam

A small yearly habit that keeps multi-gen families feeling held — without another noisy app.

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$79/year · six seats · Birthday cards included

What families say

Five days early — so you can actually show up

Five days early means I actually show up — not a last-minute text.

Sam, 29

We write ahead. The day is less scramble and more care.

Maya, 47

Not sure what to say? The prompts got me started for my sister.

Jordan, 34

Digital card, real thought. Included with the membership we already use.

Elena, 52

I used to forget until the morning of. Five days is enough runway.

Chris, 41

Same private home as Storybooks and Tree — one plan for six.

Marcus, 45

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How Birthday cards work

Five days early. Time to make it personal.

Step 1

People on your map

Birthdays sit with your private Tree — the family you actually track.

Step 2

Five days notice

Enough time to write something real — not a last-minute emoji.

Step 3

Send a digital card

Private, personal, inside the family home — not a public wall.

Step 4

Show up year after year

A small ritual of care for multi-gen families under one membership.

Care with time — not scramble.

We believe birthdays are an opportunity to show a loved one how much you care. Express gratitude, share a favorite memory, or reflect on how they shaped your life.

When your message arrives on Kinnect, it becomes more than a birthday wish — it becomes a memory they’ll return to.

Write once. Deliver at the right time.

Five-day advance notice.

Kinnect notifies you five days before a birthday for everyone in your Kin Groups. You have enough time to write something real, send something, or make a plan.

Write your message ahead of time.

Write it when you have a moment. Kinnect holds it and delivers it on their actual birthday. No scrambling the morning of.

Birthdays for everyone in your group.

Members of your Kin Group add their own birthdays to their profile. You can also add dates manually for anyone you want to remember.

Not sure what to say? We’ll help you start.

Pick from gentle prompts or speak straight from the heart.

Included with Family Membership for your kin of six.

Celebrate the people who matter most, thoughtfully and right on time.

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Frequently asked questions

Q: How does Birthday work?

A: Kinnect tracks birthdays for people in your Kin Groups and notifies you five days in advance. You can write a message ahead of time and schedule it to deliver on their birthday.

Q: How do birthdays get added?

A: Group members add their own birthday to their profile. You can also add dates manually for anyone you want to track.

Q: Can I send a birthday message to someone not on Kinnect?

A: Currently, Birthday messages send within the Kinnect platform to members of your Kin Group.

Q: Is Birthday included with Family Membership?

A: Yes. Birthday reminders are included with Family Membership — for your kin of six (you plus five you invite).